you're not forever alone

this time of year is when facebook, twitter and instagram are filled with people

(mostly girls) complaining about not having a significant other for valentines day.

you know what i have to say?  

stop. 

just because you don't have a bf/gf does not mean  nobody loves you and that you're going to be alone for the rest of your life.

valentine's day is about love, it's not a competition on whether you have a boyfriend or not. love can come from your family or friends or even a box of chocolates you buy yourself (haha k, sorry. that is going against everything this post is about. i couldn't resist)

but really, whether you have a boyfriend or girlfriend or not just remember:

i also keep hearing that girls "hate" getting stuff on valentines because they feel like their boyfriends HAVE to and that they should be getting flowers every other day of the week and blah blah blah BUT. sometimes i think we need the reminder to remind us to tell the people that we love that we love them. if that makes sense.

okay, rant over. 

this is me and bryan last valentines.

i love him.

happy valentine's day!